A How-To Guide to Drinking in New York City

You know those nights when you just really want to go out for a drink but your friends don’t? Or how about when you really just feel like sidling up to the bar and having some alone time – alone but with a scotch, of course. In a place like NYC, it’s easy to stay totally connected or to completely disappear. And sometimes, those nights spent sitting at a bar alone are the most memorable and inspiring.

Punch Drink writer Brad Thomas Parsons shares his thoughts on the art of drinking alone in a well-written and insightful piece, where he shares his childhood memories at the American Legion and experiences at beloved NYC spots including PDT, Momofuku Ssam Bar and Prime Meats. We can relate when he shares that he is drawn to the “conviviality of the routine—that combination of the music, the bartender, the servers and the genuine buzz of people having a good time spilling out onto the sidewalk on a summer night.” We are, too.

Drinking alone

There is nothing better than being a regular at a local bar. Upon moving to a new neighborhood, the first thing we do is scope out the drinking scene and find a friendly place to call home away from home. Because nothing beats being recognized by the bartender, even if all they remember is your drink and not your name. And just like Brad says, there are always fun and interesting people waiting to be met  – especially on those nights out solo.

Some tips on drinking alone:

  • Go somewhere you feel comfortable – chat up the bartender or just keep to yourself but make sure it’s a place you like; super loud and crowded places might not be the best idea for your solo night out
  • Be friendly – you don’t have to talk to every single person that walks up beside you, but keep an open mind and be willing to strike up a convo with a willing stranger. And who knows – you might meet a new best friend or snag a date.
  • Take it easy – you are already the guy (or girl) sitting at the bar and drinking alone. Don’t get super hammered annoying.
  • Bring a book – if you’re still a solo drinking newbie, think about bringing some reading material. It will make those moments when you are sitting and not talking to anyone a bit easier.
  • Have fun – it’s YOUR night out, all to yourself. Do what you like, drink what you want and talk to whomever you wish. Embrace the alone time.

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